analisa yg xpernah berakhir

lme xmnaip...byk yg nk ditulis..tp mse n kdaan sgt2 xmngizinkan...
insyaallah,dlm mse trdekat nie..i will update my new analisa yg telah dianalisis...haha..

4 Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives.
 He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"


Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

  •  The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
  • Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
  •  The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
  • The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure. 

"awak ni xmoden la!"

Tibe2 hari nie...teringat satu kejadian beberapa bulan yang lepas...seriously, i rase peristiwa nie sangat lawak...hohoho..
camni kesahnya....beberapa bulan yg lepas...ade la sorang member nie contact i...kitorang actually da 10tahun  ++  la lost contact...last jumpe mse darjah 4 dulu...first2 kitorang terjumpa kt fb...xingat la plak sape add sape dulu...tp tu xpenting la...so, kitorang pun selalu la chat kt fb...pada mulanya i really xsangka, he was my old frenz..sebab mse kecik2 dulu...badan dia sangat kurus kering...pemalu + pendiam...not expected...dia akan membesar n transform menjadi seorang jejaka yg  hensem n macho + tinggi + peramah plak sekarang....paling xtahan...badan dia da berketul2 cam fahrin ahmad skang...tp still xdapat menandingi fahrin ahmad la.. .hehehe..masa tu terpk gak...uish..rugi xtackle dia dulu...kuang3...

so,dari berfb..ktorang tukar fon no....slalu msg2 plak..topik biasa la...hal2 semasa..kenangan2 zaman budak2...i actually bukan biasa sgt msg2 or borak2 kosong ngan dak laki...bukan nk perasan baik..tp ntah la...rse xselesa..n terbatas..sebab .xsemua cerita leh share n open ngan orang lelaki nie sebenarnye...seriously, setengah jam pertama...leh tahan lg chat or msg...then minit2 berikutnya..i akan mati kutu..xtau nk borak pasal ape lg...kalu col, 10 minit je kot leh tahan...pastu lebih rela jd pendengar setia jer...hihi..
ops..sambung cerita...pastu satu hari tu dia minta izin nk call...so borak2 sekejap je la...tp xbyk kali pun kitorang borak kt fon...sebab kadang i xangkat...ye la pukul 2-3 pg kot...byk lg benda faedah leh buat...yg i boring nye dia nie...sgt 'mulut manis'..rase rimas n annoyying sebab i bkn yg jenis yg suka sebarang2 orang lelaki puji...sebab xrase dorang ikhlas dgn pujian dorang tu..n satu hal lg...dia nie..dr chat lg...asyik dok tanye...am i available @ not....oh,bosan nye...
then, cerita lawaknye bermula...oneday tu..dia col...borak2 cam bese la...then dia tnye..
"dok kL slalu kuar kL x??" i ckp la..."selalu gak kuar time weekend..tp mostly kuar ngan kakak...xpun ajak adik lelaki yg kt SAS tu..kalu x kuar ngan kwn2 perempuan je la".. pastu dia tanye lagi..."ngan kawan lelaki pernah kuar x??" i ckp je la...kalu ngan kwn lelaki yg paling rapat @ jiran lelaki sebelah umah (jiran dari kecik lg) pernah la kuar....tp tu pun kuar ramai2 la...nk kuar dua2 memang xkan la....kalu kita nk jumpa pun...sy ajak kakak or kawan teman kot..."jawab i kat dia... sebab before tu dia pernah ajak jumpa...pastu, seriously tau x dia jawab ape???
dia kata "ohh..awak nie...xmoden la"...lembutnye nada dia..tp cukup kuat berdentum hati  nie....xtertelan air liur aku mase tu...what???i yg xmoden???adakah bebas keluar ngan lelaki , pkai baju xcukup kain, party sana sini yg ko kira moden?????????? oh rosak2...tp nk tergelak sebenarnye...bahasa yg dia guna tu...ckp la aku nie old school ke...x up to date ke...nie ckp aku xmoden....adoi...hehehe... mybe xlawak bagi orang laen...tp ayat dia sangat lawak bagi aku...asal aku tgk perkataan moden...msti teringat kt dia....hahhaha...skang ktorang langsung xcontct da....nyah ko dari idup aku..daaaa~~

*biarlah i kuno n xmoden di mata manusia....asal i sentiasa moden n up to date di mata Allah....i lebih rela jadi seorang ygg xmoden...n berharap oneday,i will get jodoh yg xmoden cam i...biarlah ko moden ngan cara ko...

i'm a slave...


I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
I get blinded by anger and
Lose my temper
Causing danger
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
I wear my pride on my sleeve
When I walk down the street
Careful as you greet
A slight I may perceive
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
Wealth seduces
Entices into vices
Questionable deeds
And shady devices
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
Beauty beguiles
Possessiveness reviles
Lust defiles
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
Power Craving
Hunger Making
Lowers my sensing
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
Attacked by temptation
Devilish persuasion
Internal Excitement
And
External Enticement
Cos
I’m only human,
So full of sin,
A slave.
…But…
I’m also one of the chosen
Able to reason
with
Kindness
Compassion
A slave
I can swallow my pride
Fight a good fight
Bow down and pray
Give loving praise
A slave
I was born to worship
Supplicate
And
Prostrate
A slave
I may be human
So full of sin
But
I’m only my Creator’s humble slave
And
That makes me brave
A slave.



"We have certainly created man in the best of stature, then We return him to the lowest of the low , except for those who believe and do righteous deeds, for they will have a reward uninterrupted, so what yet causes you to deny the Recompense?? " (95 : 4-8)


A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them
fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit
was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The
two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit
with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop,
that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took
heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down
and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again,
the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He
jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the
other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to
them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the
entire time


lessons 4 today :)
1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging
word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it
through the day.

2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes
to kill them.


p/s     :   Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your
path. The power of words... it is sometimes hard to understand
that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak
words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in
difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time
to encourage another.



There was once a flock of sheep, living in a green, green field of grass.
Everyday, people will let them graze in the lands to eat.
And indeed, they grazed in the land for every single day.
They munched, and munched and keep on munching,
until one day, they fell on their side, dead.
And they didn't even get to see how big the sky was.

"Do they not see the birds above them with wings outspread and folded in? None holds them except the Most Merciful. Indeed, He is, of all things, Seeing."
67:19
p/s : do we look exactly like them?? thinking ~.... :)

April fools???

what is known as April Fool's Day or, if it is translated literally, the trick of April. But how much do we know of the bitter secret behind this day?

In Spain, after centuries of Muslim ruled, the Moors were overwhelmed by the Christian Army. However, the Moors were fortified in their homes. The Christian armies wanted to get rid of the Muslims somehow. They told the Muslims that they could leave their homes safely and could take only the necessary things from their homes. They were told they could sail away in the ships anchored on the quay side. The Muslims did wonder if this ploy was a trick. The Muslims were requested to go to the quay side to check the ships. They did so and were convinced. They then made preparations to leave. The next day, 1st April, they took their essential belongings and walked towards the quay side.

The Christians looted their homes and then set fire to them. Before the Muslims got to the ships, the Christians had set fire to the ships as well. The Christians then attacked the Muslims and killed them all (men, women and children). They then celebrated this carnage. This then became a ritual that was celebrated every year and that has been carried on until this day not only
 in Spain but in other countries too. The Muslims celebrate 1st April as well as playing jokes on others on this day through sheer ignorance of the story. We should bring out the facts of the story to all inorder to put a stop to the practice of celebrating this bloody and shameful episode.

wassalam...

A smile


She smiled at a sorrowful stranger.
The smile seemed to make him feel better.

He remembered past kindness of a friend
And wrote him a thank you letter.

The friend was so pleased with the thank you
That he left a large tip after lunch.

The waitress, surprised by the size of the tip,
Gave part to a man on the street.

The man on the street was grateful;
For two days he'd had nothing to eat.

After he finished his dinner,
He left for his small dingy room.

He didn't know at that moment
that he might be facing his doom.

On the way he picked up a shivering puppy
And took him home to get warm.

The puppy was very grateful
To be in out of the storm.

That night the house caught on fire
The puppy barked the alarm.

He barked till he woke the whole household
And saved everybody from harm.

One of the boys that he rescued
Grew up to be President.

All this because of a simple smile
That hadn't cost a cent
.

...and THAT is the power of a smile! So smile away :)
The Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, said:
"Every good deed is sadaqah (charity). To meet your
brother with a smiling face and to pour out from your
bucket into his container are sadaqah."

SAYA DAH BESAR!!

                                                                    


 "Hohoho...sy da besar!!! im already 18!!!!yeaaaayy!!!...."
seyesly ramai yg sangat bangga + gembira + teruja apabila da masuk umur 18 tahun... 
me too!!! ...i pun dulu rase gembira teramat bila da abis SPM...sebab da xpayah pakai uniform sekolah...da xpayah nak hafal subjek2 arab...da blh  masuk uni... da blh keje part-time (sebab sebelum tu, asal nk minta keje part time..mesti dorang tulis...umur mestilah 18 taun ke atas) n macam2 alasan lagi..
tp tu dulu la...waktu mula2 abis SPM...setahun lebih lepas tu, rindu giler zaman sekolah...rindu nk pakai uniform skolah, rindu nk menghafal sebab rase otak da jd lembab nk ingt sebab da lame xmenghafal...n macam2 kerinduan la pada zaman2 innocent tersebut..

Tp ape yang nak ditulis pada hari nie...bukan lah pengalaman semasa berumur 18 taun @ cerita menarik semasa berumur 18 taun...yg nk ditulis pada hari ini ialah...suatu kemusykilan n beberapa kekonfiusan tentang pandangan budak2 skarang apabila da masuk @ baru nk masuk umur 18 bagi yg suda memasuki alam kolej @uni...

*scene 1 :
"yeay!!sy da masuk 18...lepas nie boleh la sy kuar lepak ngan kwn2 tiap2 weekend...xyah mak ayah or family  teman lg..p window shopping...tgk midnight..nk g karok pun xpe...nk kuar ngan pakwe pun mst mak n ayah da xkisah...sy kan bkn bdak sekolah lg..hohoho..

*scene 2 : 
"mak ayah da xyah sebok la....kakak tau la jaga diri...kejap2 asyik call....im not budak kecik la..xkan akk kene report setiap hari nk g mane n buat ape..akak da 18 la yah...haish "...

Sebenarnya banyak lagi scene2 yg xpatut diucap, ug  telinga i telah dengar untuk dianalysa...tp hari nie kita analysa 2 scene nie jer dulu...i pun bukannya anak yang perfect n solehah...cuma bagi i, pendapat n kata2 dorang tu melampau...adakah mereka rase umur 18 tahun adalah satu pasport untuk mereka melakukan apa saja???da boleh nk belakangkan keluarga???rase da lame sgt ke idup kt bumi nie???da fasih benar ke onak duri duniawi nie???sedangkan dosa2 mereka masih lg menjadi tanggungan bapa mereka...wajarkah tindakan mereka itu???oh,sungguh kompius dengan mereka ini....

wahai adik2 ku sayang...kenapa singkat sangat fikiranmu???cuba pk dalam2.....rase sudah terlalu besar sangat ke setakat umur 18 tu???i yg lg tua nie pun...kalau nk kuar, masih anta msg kt family...x anta kt mak ayah pun, sekurang2nya anta kat kakak...sebab i pk...ntah2 mase keluar nanti, accident ke...kene kidnap ke...mati ke...sekurang2 family  tahu..xde la mereka terkejut bila terima berita...lepas tu perjalanan tu pun mendapat berkat dari Allah...maybe ade yang rase i nie kolot..sebab berpikiran seperti itu...tp,ade ku kesah???

btw mungkin juga bukan salah mereka...mungkin mereka menjadi sedemikian sebab terlalu diberikan banyak perhatian n kasih sayang oleh family...sampai xreti nk hargai...sebab macam i nie, dibesarkan dengan kasih sayang tapi kurang perhatian dari family...dari tadika sampai sekarang, i banyak tinggal ngan nenek, makcik n tinggal sendiri....sebab dulu, parents  sibuk ngan bussiness...so, kalu i nk kemana2...bila i msg dorang n dorang col balik tanya kenapa..nk buat ape...i rase hepy giler..sebab pd fikiran i..'waaa...parents aku risau jugak ngan aku n still sayang aku...' tapi bila i tengok scene budak2 skang nie...bile parents dorang col tanye kat mana n buat ape...parents dorang lak yg kena marah...compius2...waktu i sebaya ngan dorang dulu..jeles bila tgk parents orang laen selalu col...xpahamkah dorang..betapa sayangnya parents dorang kt dorang...sampai sanggup abiskan kredit n mase selalu col n risaukan  dorang...adoi2..

ni lak satu kesah..pada satu hari...kata2 dari seorang junior yang membuat i terpk beberapa jenak... " saya rimas la kak...parents saya nie..asyik2 col...pesan lak..benda yang sama....take care..jaga diri leklok...suh hati2...saya tahu la...saya nie bukannya budak kecik...pastu kalau balik umah lg rimas...nak kemana2 mesti suh abang teman...nak kuar ngan kawan2 pun mesti dorang nk hantar kt tempat sy nk jumpa kawan2 tu...haish..rimas la sy kak...saya da besar la kak...patut ke mereka layan saya macam budak tadika???"ceritanya pjg lebar .....oh, terkesima i dengar ayat budak tersebut...i plak yg kelu lidah nk jawab patut ke tidak ...i yang da belia nie pun kalau kuar kL msti kuar ngan my sis..bukan dorang xharap...tapi i yg rase xselamat...kalau ade urgent @ bnda pnting  jer i kuar sendiri...tu pun minta kawan temankan lepas jenuh memujuk suh my sis temankan...kalu x, xingin i pegi sendiri saje2...rse seperti kt luar tu semua orang jahat n bahaya ade di mana2 je..

selain tu jugak...sebagai peringatan untuk diri sendiri n adik2 sekalian...apabila kita sudah tinggal berjauhan dari family..adakah bermaksud...kita bebas keluar n melakukan sebarang aktiviti tanpa pengetahuan dorang???sebelum buat sesuatu tu...cuba pk sedalam2nya....kesan perbuatan kita tu.....pergi karok mlm2 buta...pegi midnight every week...lepak maple sampai 3-4 pagi...sebok pegi ladies night lg....dating sana sini...kawan laki n perempuan pun da xde bezanya..... ape kejadahnye semua tu???adakah korang xrisau...bahaya kuar malam2???kena rape ke...kena samun ke...accident ke....kena smpuk ke???parents kt umah ingat kita tgh tido @ tengah wat assignment kt kolej ...padahal anak macam kelawar...merewang malam2....
i pun bukan jenis baik sgt...tapi xde la nk habiskan mase dengan aktiviti camtu...memang la mase muda nie la nk kenal karok...nk lepak maple..nk kenal indahnye cinta....nk buat macam2 aktiviti....tp berfaedah kah sume tu???n tahukah kita..mcm mne kita sewaktu muda...macam tu lah perangai anak kita nanti....mybe korang rse xkesah kot...but i kesah sangat2...lg satu, kalau ditakdirkan mati ketika muda...x ke menyesal???tengah2 karok,tbe2 mati tercekik ke...hahhaaa...tp xmustahil kan....then...x ke terkejut kalau parents kita dapat tahu???...ish..xtau la samada i yang terlalu kuno n x up to date @ budak2 skang nie yg terlampau advance n berperangai pelik...bertambah kompius di kepala...

*kadang2 terpk...adakah aku nie yang tersangat old scholl??kata sorang teman...aku berpk gaya mak nenek sudah...-nevermind-




bunga dan rama-rama

huhuhuhu.....rase bit nervous for my first entri....ape den nk tulis nie... :-)

tp sempena taun baru....sem baru.....permulaan idup baru...semangat baru...sume baru...i nk share satu story yg amat bermakna bg i kt blog nie...citer nie i terbaca 3 taun lepas.....


   Once upon a time...(cam citer kanak2 ribena la plak)...kt satu padang pasir nie..tinggal sorang abid...setiap hari,setiap masa dan setiap ketika si abid nie mengisi masanya dengan beribadat kepada Allah dengan penuh kekusyukkan n ketawadukkan kt padang pasir tersebut.. bibirnya xpernah kering dengan zikrullah....hatinya pula sentiasa rindu dengan Allah...

Makanya setelah berkurun tinggal sorang-sorang kt padang pasir tu...si abid nie merasa amat sunyi...hatinya meronta-ronta inginkan sesuatu untuk dijadikan teman penghibur kt padang pasir tu..semalaman si abis ni dok pk....apa yg dia nk mintak kt Allah....makanya keesokkan harinya..dengan penuh keyakinan si adib berdoa kepada Allah supaya diberikan seekor rama-rama dan bunga sebagai teman kt padang pasir tu....si abid nie amat confident yg doanya akan dimakbulkan....

So,pada suatu malam...si abid ni telah bermimpi yg doanya dimakbulkan....maka dengan  confident + excited = hati berbunga-bunga  si abid ni bangun tido pada hari tersebut...tetapi alangkah terkejutnya beliau  apabila melihat hanya terdapat seekor ulat yang hodoh dan kaktus berduri je yg ada dekat batu di tempat pertapaan dia.... 






Makaa....si abid tu merasa very2 frustrated....coz dia expect yg doanya akan dimakbulkan...syaitan mula meracuni hati n minda si abid agar keimanan beliau tergugat apabila permintaannya xditunaikn...namun,si abid cepat2 beristigfar n menyabarkan hatinya..si abid pun membuat sangkaan mungkin Allah sibuk kerana terlalu banyak permintaan dari hamba-Nya untuk ditunaikan.... oleh sebab tu dia hanya memdapat seekor ulat dan kaktus berduri...si abid tu pun redha n  meneruskanlah aktiviti dia seperti biasa dengan beribadat...ditinggalkan makhluk-makhluk tersebut...hatinya tetap yakin dan xpernah berubah terhadap Allah....

Then,setelah sekian lama.....pada suatu hari,hati si abid ni tiba-tiba merasa sunyi dan sangat sedih....maka dia  teringat akan kaktus dan ulat yg telah dianugerahkan Allah kepadanya suatu masa dahulu....kerana selepas hari tersebut si abid nie xpernah menghiraukan makhluk2 tu... alangkah terkejut sekali lagi si abid nie apabila tiba di tempat tersebut kerana mendapati kaktus kosong yg diterimanya itu mengeluarkan bunga yang saaaaaaangat cantik n wangi......sementara ulat yg hodoh dahulu telah bertukar menjadi rama-rama yang amaaaat cantik......


  Pada hari tersebut barulah si abid nie mengerti yang sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui akan sesuatu....setiap permintaan hambanya pasti akan Allah tunaikan cumaa.....cepat atau lambat sahaja....kerana  Allah lebih mengetahui waktu yg sesuai akan setiap kejadian.....
    Kasih Allah kepada kita xpernah pudar...tp kasih kita padaNya???? sesungguhnya Dia Maha Pengasih lagi Penyayang....jadi wajar lah kita sebagai hambaNya tanpa ragu-ragu mentaati Allah dan menjalankan segala tanggungjawab kita padaNya.....serta redha n bersabar apabila diberi ujian olehNya...




p/s : hope taun 2011 akan banyak rama-rama dan bunga muncul dalam idup i.......amiiinnnnn